Three Dry Shites - Powered by Home and Haute Couture! (Ep. 154)

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There's a church band.
Oh yeah, there's like 3.

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Yeah.
Are you recording now?

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Oh, I sure AM.
What does Jeremy play?

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Jeremy doesn't play any Oh.
He's not in the band.

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No, he can't read music or
anything.

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He can't read anything.
Read Music.

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Oh, I see.
You can't read anything.

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This is what everyone does on
Thursdays at our church, forever

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and ever.
Every the entire congregation is

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you must play an instrument.
Unless you're Jeremy and can't

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read music.
Not everybody plays, but most

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people learned.
Yeah, Jeremy, the It's an

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audience of one because everyone
else is in the band.

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Yeah, who watches?
This band.

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This is due to Underwhelming
Demand, the podcast that wishes

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you a happy Saint Patrick's Day.
Oh yes, that's right, Happy

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Saint Patrick's Day.
How's she cutting?

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How's she cutting?
Hopefully you'll be having some

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crake and you're not with a dry
shite so have a few scoops.

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Don't be acting the maggot or
you'll be scuttered and

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knackered to end in bits
tomorrow.

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Couldn't have said it better
myself.

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I could have done it with an
Irish accent but I'm not that

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good at it.
But I would also recommend

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staying away from wet.
Shite.

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No Dry.
Shite.

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Just.
In case you didn't know what I

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said, it's like, how's it going?
Hopefully you're having some

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fun.
You're not with a boring, no fun

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person.
Rachel.

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Have a few drinks.
Don't be acting like a fool or

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you'll be blind drunk and
exhausted and in a bad way

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tomorrow anyway.
In a bad way, OK.

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Happy Saint Patrick's Day, and
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Yes, Oat Couture.

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This is an event put on by our

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coming up.
Also coming up, Rachel is in A

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and who knew?
What did you know?

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I thought you guys did know
that.

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She's in a band.
I've.

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Been doing this my whole life
but OK.

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OK, sure, Foreman wonders.
If you've ever had to guide

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somebody through the grocery
store, huh?

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Just my.
Husband.

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Yeah, don't follow me.
Yeah, but we'll begin with

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another episode of Is Dave the A
Hole?

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Or in case you're OK with
swearing his Dave's Addiction.

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Right.
Well, it was both, kind of.

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Alternatively titled, the answer
is always yes.

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Well, not always.
Maybe it is.

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Yes.
The answer is always yes.

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Dave is that person.
Yeah.

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OK, because can't wait.
For.

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This while travelling, while
driving over the last I would

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say 2 weeks.
I think it's two weeks.

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This has happened to me now once
while twice while I was driving

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and once while my wife was
driving.

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So I'm wondering, is it us?
Are we the ones we the?

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You're dragging her into this.
Well, I'm just, I want to

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because it happened to her.
Why?

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Is it that all of the is Dave
the asshole bits are surrounding

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you being a driver?
Well, because a lot of things

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happen when you drive and, and
here's the thing, here's because

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I, I, it's sort of like the
golden rule.

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I I try to.
Get out of my way.

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No, no, no, no.
That's not true.

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That's not the golden rule for
him.

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And I try to treat drivers the
way I would like to be treated

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while I'm driving.
So in other words, I don't want

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to.
Yes, of course.

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Why?
Why are you surprised by that?

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Because there's been times, a
lot of times, where that is not

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how you're treating the other
shoppers.

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Like when, What do I?
How?

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How do I?
Give them the finger.

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Yeah, that's because they didn't
treat me well.

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OK, OK, so they did it first.
How?

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Hard is that.
Sure it was.

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And.
Deserved they.

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Deserved.
It fine.

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OK I don't give fingers out just
randomly.

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Hello other driver.
Fuck you, I don't do.

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That that's not what I do like
for instance, I was in the left

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hand lane, I was on Oxford
Street.

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I'm moving along, I don't know,
65 K 65 between 65 and 70, not

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over 70 cuz I, I consider that
speeding anyway, so I'm doing

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that.
I'm traveling along and just as

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I'm just as I'm about to pass
this car on my right and I'm

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just about to buy it, I notice
their left hand turn signal came

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on And I thought I, I don't know
what you're doing, 'cause I'm

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right, like I'm right here.
I don't know what you're doing.

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They don't see you assume.
That I don't know.

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Not trust anybody.
Well, I know, you know, like I'm

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already here.
Like I really here.

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Well, I'm already here.
You don't assume they see you.

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They don't.
Yeah, you can see in their

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mirror because newer cars also
warn you that there's somebody,

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a light goes on or whatever ever
to warn you.

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And I could see that.
They're just signal.

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I just sort of look and I go,
well, I don't know where you're

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going because I'm right, like
literally right here.

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And then within 2 seconds, the
car veered to the point where I

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slammed on the brakes and I had
to veer over to like, or they

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were going to hit me.
And I was, I don't know a word

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for this, flabbergasted.
I was like.

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Stand.
The hell.

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Yeah, what just happened?
What was that?

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No, those weren't the words you
yelled out loud at the moment.

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Well, no, probably not.
Probably not.

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She was annoyed at me and I
couldn't understand.

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I couldn't understand why.
Like she just veered in front of

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me as if to say, hey, I need to
get in and you're not letting

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me.
In I lane now mine.

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Those people always just.
Continue on driving and and and

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aren't inconvenienced.
One bit yesterday I had this was

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another woman who cut me off and
immediately put the signal on

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and went boom right in front of
me and I.

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Slammed us a trend.
Well, that's what I wanted.

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No, it's a trend.
And then the other instance, my

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wife was driving the other
street.

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Yes, you were on Wonderland.
Pro, it might be your fault.

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Wonderland Rd.
And it's busy.

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There's quite a bit of traffic,
and we're approaching.

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We're headed to Costco.
That's where we're going.

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Yeah, lots of people are going
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It was AI think like a Sunday or
a Saturday morning.

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That's what makes.
Wonderland Rd. a parking lot.

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You're part of the.
Problem exactly and the guy

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literally right beside us all of
a sudden puts on his turn signal

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and just goes right in front of
us and my wife slams on the

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brakes and hits the horn which I
love her.

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Yes, hits the horn and she gave
us the finger so that's why I'm

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wondering.
Was.

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He able.
Is he driving a Mercedes?

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A Lexus ABMW.
No, a Tesla.

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A big.
Truck no, but you know what he

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was driving.
That's right, 'cause I I thought

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you you D bagging your Rav 4.
Rav 4.

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Rav. 40 get his life the worst.
Vehicle in the world like Rav 4.

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Doors are OK, I got AI, got a
Highlander.

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Rav 4 I should have known it was
somebody in a.

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Rav straight out of Woodstock.
Yeah, if you'd told me all of

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those instances separately on
different days, I would have

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been like, no, it's not your
fault.

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But now that this has become a
trend in your life.

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So it's my fault.
I don't.

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I mean, there's got to be
something in there that makes it

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your fault.
Foreman.

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The way you're telling them
these stories makes it seems

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like it's entirely not your
fault, right?

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Right.
But because there's so many like

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Rachel says, I feel like maybe
your point of view isn't the

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point of view.
Okay, all right, all right.

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So my point of view yesterday,
there's a construction merge.

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Yeah.
And the lane beside me had to

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merge into my lane, right.
One woman is slightly ahead of

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me already.
So I'm slowing down and hanging

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back to let her, you know, zip
her in.

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And everyone continues on and
I'm hanging back.

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But then she's slowing down and
going slow or slow.

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And now we're both going the
same speed slow.

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God, she doesn't know how to zip
her merge.

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Yeah, and the merge is still up
ahead.

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There's still several car legs
between her and the end of her

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lane.
And so then I end up going past

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her and she's staring at me in
the absolute pouring rain when

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the with the window open and a
dart hanging out, of course

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looking at me like I'm the
asshole.

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I'm thinking the thirst.
I tried.

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I made so much bread.
This is such an effort for me.

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I tried.
Fuck, I tried, I tried.

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Yes, yes, I mean I, I guess.
My when you're a driver, my

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everybody else is the asshole.
Well, not yes, everybody.

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Else it doesn't matter if.
It's sometimes it is.

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True I.
Know sometimes an asshole.

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I know that sometimes I make a
mistake.

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What I my point here is, is this
a new trend?

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That's why I'm wondering, is it
my?

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Fault sounds like.
Yeah, it seems like same old

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same old.
We don't wait anymore like you

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don't I?
I don't mind letting someone in

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in front of me as Foreman was
just suggesting.

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There are instances where people
need to get in and I don't mind

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if you give me a chance.
So in these.

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Cases.
They just go.

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Here's a bit of a different
perspective.

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Because Jeremy will get mad that
no one's letting him in.

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No one's letting him over,
right?

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And I'm like, put your signal
on.

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Nobody knows you want to come
over.

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Oh, he doesn't put it on.
So then he's.

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Like, well, I'm just, you know,
he wants to wait till there's a

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space and then put the signal on
and move.

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Over, I don't.
Want like just sit there with

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your signal on.
Somebody will be like, oh, this

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person wants to come.
Over sure.

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Yeah, and I and I get that.
I.

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Get that?
I think a lot of people do that.

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Well, they.
And they're annoyed because you

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didn't let them in, but you
didn't know that you they wanted

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to come in, right?
Well, all three of them did

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signal, but they didn't give me
much.

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They didn't even give me an
opportunity to go.

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OK, I'll let you in.
Right.

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I mean.
In the first case, I was right

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literally right beside her when
she decided she.

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Needed.
She didn't see you.

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She didn't look, but I didn't
check her.

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But then why was she mad at me?
Why did she veer?

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Into me because how dare you get
she is just going on about her

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day.
You get out of her way.

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Yeah, I'm because everyone who
just decides to Willy nilly

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change lanes, there's never
repercussions for them because

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everyone else has to slam on
their brakes and move out of the

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way and they just keep going.
I guess they.

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Just do, do, do, do, do keep
going on.

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Nothing's wrong with them.
They get to go where they want

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to go.
Yeah, in a second we all get out

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of their way.
They I feel like on top of the

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world, why would maybe we should
all start driving like that, I

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think.
It's that personal.

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I think everybody thinks they're
the best.

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Guy personal.
It's always that personal guy

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behind the wheel.
Really really really glad I

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brought this up.
This time around, this podcast

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is brought to you by Home Adult
Couture.

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Yes, this is an event happening
on March 31st and it's free and

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you can go free for free put on
by our friend Erica Vincent

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who's a Realtor with Rebel
Realty and her colleague Aurora

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Desal of Rebel Realty and
Tiffany Irvine of Real Mortgage

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Associations.
She's a mortgage broker and shop

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The Muse, which is like a high
end vintage designer website,

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right?
That you can go and shop all

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kinds of things.
I was checking out their

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website.
You can buy Christian Dior like

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dresses and shoes and offend
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There's a Fendi bikini, there's
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skirts, YSL Dolce and cabana.
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So you know, from the 2000s and
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Curated luxury pieces from the
world's most coveted fashion

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houses.
Wow, pretty.

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Cool.
Wow.

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Any stuff that I that normally
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afford, but maybe you can, yeah.
It is an archival designer

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vintage clothing.
Maybe you can.

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This is your.
Opportunity it'll be and it's

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not online, it's in person.
This event has two Realtors and

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a mortgage agent, so it's pretty
much everything you need to get

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a house, right?
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That's your chance to, you know,
get some expert advice for free

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from these real estate
professionals and they're ready

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to guide you through your home
finding journey.

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So, you know, it's springtimes,
people start looking for homes.

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The real estate market really
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muse because they'll be there
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This is a pop up shop that
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It's happening at Lumen House.
Yeah, March. 31st Where's Lumen

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House?
On Richmond.

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St.
Richmond.

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On Richmond St. downtown.
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Lumen House on Richmond St.,
March 31st, 6:00 to 8:00 PM.

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They've got tickets.
You can, well, they're free, but

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they're tickets on Eventbrite
that you can go to and we're

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going to post it in our show
notes and all of that too.

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So we'll have all the links for
you there, OK?

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Home.
And oat couture.

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It's not oat like OAT just.
It's haute.

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I had to look it up like home.
And haute.

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Home and haute couture.
March 31st.

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This is due to underwhelming
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It's a podcast, of course, with
Dave, Rachel and Foreman.

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And it's the podcast that's
perfect for Saint Patrick's Day

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because it goes great with a
pint of Guinness.

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As a matter of fact, does it?
It sounds better the more

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Guinness you drink and.
Then if you listen to us on 2

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1/2 two times speed.
Yeah, sure, whatever.

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Also then it sounds like we're
Irish.

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So Aaron Gobrah, Ireland
forever.

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Now that you can buy Guinness in
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Yes you can.
You can.

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You can you know where to buy
it, but I don't know where to

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buy anything else in the grocery
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And no one should ever follow me
around the store.

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But my wife, Ashley, has found
herself guiding others through

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groceries.
What's?

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Being a grocery guide to.
Complete strangers.

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I don't know what that means.
You show up, say someone arrive

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is around the same time as you,
you're both getting carts right.

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You maybe nod at each other.
And then once you start, you go

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right to the produces right
there at the start.

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And then they say, oh, you're
getting that kind of apple.

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Why?
Why are you choosing those

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apples?
Well, because they we, I don't

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know, maybe they're crispier or
maybe they're cheaper, or maybe

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these ones are the ones on sale
this week.

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Oh, OK.
So you put those apples in your

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cart and then you go down
through the entire store and

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essentially follow your guide
around and ask them questions

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about everything she's buying.
You kidding you?

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Buy the same thing.
Are you telling me that somebody

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actually followed your wife
around the grocery store?

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At No Frills last weekend.
That's very I don't that.

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Never happened to me.
That's.

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Highly unusual and really weird.
I mean they weren't attached to

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each other, but it he really he
clearly needed her advice on

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everything and she felt that he
probably had a family.

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Like it wasn't a single guy, but
he had no idea what he was

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doing.
Then why was he there?

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I don't, but why wasn't we told
to be there?

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I probably said go get
groceries.

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Well, yeah, so he.
Did, and he found another wife

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to tell him how.
Well, I freely admit that I'm

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not lost in a grocery store.
I know where everything is.

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I always have at least one or
two questions from the list that

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I've been given from my wife.
Yes.

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So I just say to her, well, I'm
planning to go at, you know,

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maybe 9:00 AM or whatever.
So hopefully you're available

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'cause you'll probably get two
or three texts.

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Yeah, yeah, I don't really like
a picture.

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Maybe.
Yes, a picture.

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I send Jeremy I need to be
readily by the phone just in

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case.
Why is that?

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Why can't you figure it out on
your own?

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Well, you're because you.
Because if I figure it out on my

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own, 9 times out of 10 my
figured out on my own comes home

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and it's the wrong thing.
And I don't like that.

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I don't like being I don't like
being told I got the wrong

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thing.
I don't like being told that

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this this isn't what I asked
for.

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I don't like that.
Even though we know it's

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probably fine, or it's close
enough, or it's basically the

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same, we're not gonna think
that.

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We're OK, we did.
That's why we didn't bother

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asking.
Yeah, OK.

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So we need to make sure you're
not absolutely precise.

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You're not OK with it.
And I will ask you, but I will

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not ask anyone.
I'm not asking anyone else.

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I.
Don't even talk to anybody at

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the.
I don't talk to anybody at the

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grocery store either, other than
like the people checking me out.

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Yes, that's who I talked.
To the only thing I've ever

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asked an employee is if I
genuinely can't find an item,

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hey, where are the whatever?
And then they just say, oh,

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aisle 9, OK, I'll find it.
I'm not talking to anybody else.

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I mean, not that I wouldn't if I
ran into somebody I know or

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whatever, sure.
But I always feel like when when

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I go to the grocery store, I'm
on a mission and I just want to

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complete my mission, you know,
as you need a.

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Very specific list.
That's right.

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Expediently as I can.
I don't want to, you know, I

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don't want to be wasting my time
in the grocery store, right?

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I want to get it.
I want to do it right and I want

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to do it as quickly as I can.
I've had a man ask me where

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things are like that's happened
a couple times I think, and you

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didn't, you know why.
You were not working there.

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Yeah.
Like I'm, I don't work here, but

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it's, I think it's over there
and he's like, OK.

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That's interesting.
Why?

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What if I'm looking?
For something I am asking an

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employee.
Yeah.

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Who are these men asking other
customers?

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I don't know.
Yeah.

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I would never do that.
I mean I I would.

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Ask Men are there and their
wives have said go shopping and

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they have a question and their
wives aren't answering their

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phones so they have to find
another wife at the store who

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can help them.
I'm not finding another.

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No, thank you.
I don't don't want another wife.

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No thanks.
I'm good with what I and the

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other thing is I'm pretty sure
that the other wives in the

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store are, you know, they don't
know what my wife wants either.

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No they don't.
No SO.

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What's the point?
But people, I posted this on the

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Country 104 Facebook page.
Oh yeah.

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And a lot of people say, like
Lori, Lori who listens to us,

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actually says, I've had lots of
men ask for advice on certain

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products, never women.
Advice on like which one should

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I get?
Yeah, I guess, Ellen, who says

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absolutely.
Happens all the time.

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I'm a cashier at No Frills.
I do it all the time.

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Yeah, but you're the employee,
so more people.

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Would ask you understand asking
an employee but I don't

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understand.
Just randomly the advice

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without.
The West following a woman

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through the grocery store is
weird.

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Yeah, and creepy, weird, like
when you said to me she was

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followed through the grocery
store.

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I'm like, fuck yeah, that's
terrible.

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And it's, you know, always a man
following a woman.

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But then kept seeing the guy.
But then he was like asking

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question.
I'm like, OK, so he's not like

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stalking her.
He's just.

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It is weird.
But that is weird.

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And it's off putting.
As a woman, trust, like if

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you're a man and you're thinking
of doing that, don't please.

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That's off putting.
Makes us feel unsafe.

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We don't want to be followed.
I also heard from there's a

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Amber who I she goes to.
I don't know what small stores

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are in Port Dover, she says.
I, I feed a family of 6 on $160

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a week and I'm at the same store
every Friday in Port Dover and

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it's the same group of old
ladies that are there that she

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has to guide, take around the
store with her 'cause she's got

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all the sales mapped out.
They don't, they're not, they're

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not downloading the flip app,
right?

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Basically waiting for her in the
parking lot to bother even to go

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in.
That's an organized group,

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right?
So that's.

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You know that's the.
Tour group.

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Now that's sort of.
Different.

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That's sort of different yeah,
that's different.

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What are the guys like golf
with?

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Like he, he knows what's on sale
and that's where he like he when

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he shops, that's how he shops.
You go to one grocery store,

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then another grocery store.
He's looking for the deals

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'cause he knows what the deals
are.

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So he's not asking you, buddy.
Yes, of course.

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Maybe.
People are asking him or no,

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they wouldn't know to ask him
'cause.

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No, they wouldn't.
This is due to Wonderwall.

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We start again.
Too many guinnesses.

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Yeah, that's what it is.
This is due to Underwhelming

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Demand, the podcast that may or
may not be on March break.

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How could you tell anyway?
You wouldn't.

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You wouldn't know.
No, no.

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We're Dave, Rachel and Foreman.
Hey, and thanks to Home and Oat

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Couture, we're sponsoring this
fine podcast.

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Erica was showing me the website
Shop the Muse that's going to be

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there last Thursday.
I see her every Thursday and so

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there's lots of.
Where do you see her?

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Where do you see her every
Thursday?

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At church, we go to church, she
goes to my church.

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On Thursdays.
Yes, well, we have band practice

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on Thursdays, so everybody's
there on.

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Thursdays OK Band.
Yes.

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Like that, you're in, you're in
a.

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You're in a band, didn't you?
Guys know that I was in a band.

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No.
No.

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Like it's a brass band.
What it is like a What is this?

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Like I've always been in since I
was like a teen.

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So is this.
Since high school.

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Oh, I was.
I was in the high school band.

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I was talking.
About a group Here you're we're

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talking about like a band band
like band camp.

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Yes, I did go to band camp.
Yeah, there's a difference

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between Rachel's in a band to
Rachel's in band.

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In I'm in band, yeah, I'm not
band.

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Yeah, well, I.
Did in a band.

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I actually did go.
To band camp.

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One time at band camp.
Many times music, it is called

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music camp.
But yeah, OK.

455
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,160
Sometimes I did vocal, sometimes
I did band.

456
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,400
Pick different.
What do you play?

457
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:13,400
I play the E flat horn which
kind of looks like a mini tuba.

458
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,320
We're going to put a whore in
that big.

459
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:16,160
Right.
Yeah, You wouldn't.

460
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,720
You wouldn't know what it is.
How did you guys not know?

461
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,880
I've known you guys for almost
20 years.

462
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,600
So you see it like.
I've known for 20 years.

463
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,160
I seem to recall years ago in
school.

464
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,360
Is it like a baritone?
Yeah, it's like a little

465
00:23:31,360 --> 00:23:33,360
baritone.
Oh, smaller than a baritone?

466
00:23:33,360 --> 00:23:35,200
A bit smaller than a baritone,
yeah, Is.

467
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,520
It like a French horn.
No no, looks like a baritone but

468
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,560
it's like smaller.
So when you play, are you doing?

469
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,120
No, a baritone like a.
Brass.

470
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,800
No, that's the two I know.
Do you that?

471
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,520
Play.
I play like the harmonies, kind

472
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,000
of.
Well, give us how does it sound?

473
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,520
Can you give us that?
Don't like?

474
00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:00,440
Come on.
Oh, so you're you're a little

475
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:01,680
higher than you're like a
trumpet?

476
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,520
Yeah.
And like, like under the, like

477
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,680
right under the trumpet.
So Julia plays trumpet, which is

478
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,680
called.
Oh, so the whole thing where?

479
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:09,360
Are we in the?
Band.

480
00:24:09,360 --> 00:24:11,600
Everybody's in the band.
Yes, me and the kids.

481
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:15,880
Me and the kids are in the band.
Yeah, it's a family band.

482
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,040
Oh, you looked it up in high
school.

483
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,520
I did play the French horn of.
Course.

484
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,520
Because that's like the
equivalent, but we don't have

485
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,000
French ones.
So we go to the Salvation Army

486
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,600
church and so there's bands.
We have bands at our church

487
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,200
that's.
Just is everybody in the band?

488
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,600
Yeah, most people are in the
band or they've learned.

489
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,960
They've had to learn, OK.
And rehearsals are on Thursdays

490
00:24:37,120 --> 00:24:40,240
and every.
Well, no, you don't have to, but

491
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:41,560
my kids have to.
And.

492
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,520
What is and?
OK, so hang on.

493
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,120
Sounds fun, yeah?
Everybody's in the band.

494
00:24:47,120 --> 00:24:50,160
What does Jeremy play?
He doesn't no, Jeremy doesn't

495
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,600
read music or any like he can't
do any of that.

496
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,600
He doesn't read music.
He can't.

497
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,320
He didn't grow up in this.
He just has to come.

498
00:24:59,960 --> 00:25:02,960
So him and some of the other
dads that also don't play music

499
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,240
like Erica's husband play like
sit and play games like cards

500
00:25:07,360 --> 00:25:09,000
cards while we all have band
practice.

501
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,000
So they have to listen to your
practice.

502
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,440
Well, they're in, they're
downstairs in the like, there's

503
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,360
a gym in our church.
OK, Yeah.

504
00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:22,280
And they sit in the gym and play
right cards and then we go

505
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,080
upstairs and practice.
Right in a different room.

506
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,440
Yes, yeah, I hope so.
When we're on, there's three

507
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:32,080
different bands rehearsing and
then the 4th band starts as

508
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,760
we're finishing up, and then the
fifth band is like they start it

509
00:25:36,360 --> 00:25:37,440
later.
A battle.

510
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,560
A battle of the bands.
There's lots.

511
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,960
Yeah.
So we're in the beginner band

512
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,800
and because my kids, you just
started a couple years ago, you.

513
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,040
Said you've been you.
You've been doing you.

514
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,680
You actually went to music camp,
band camp.

515
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,880
You were playing.
You've been in a band, We've got

516
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,280
a band.
Trips we went to are.

517
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,720
You just in the beginner band?
Well, then I stopped playing for

518
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,520
about 15 years.
So then I, I restarted when my

519
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,960
kids were old enough to begin.
And I was like, OK, I'll join.

520
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,360
Like I knew they were going to
fight it, but I'm like, you have

521
00:26:08,360 --> 00:26:10,040
to cut.
Everybody has to do this.

522
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,120
This is what we all do.
Every Thursday we come here

523
00:26:13,120 --> 00:26:15,560
whether we like it or not.
You learn music, you take these

524
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,920
lessons, and that's too bad.
So I thought I'll join the band,

525
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,680
so I'll be in the band with them
so that I'll give them more

526
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,040
incentive to be there.
And it does.

527
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:27,520
So the kids.
Play the three of.

528
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,360
Us sit together.
Your oldest daughter is playing

529
00:26:29,360 --> 00:26:30,600
a trumpet.
Is she good at it?

530
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,560
Yeah, she's pretty good.
She's not bad like for her, but

531
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,520
then actually she just switched
to percussion foreman.

532
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,000
That's your thing.
OK, so.

533
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,800
What is she?
She's very excited to play the

534
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:43,480
drums and she's there's a
triangle in one song that she

535
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,520
has to play too.
So I always wanted to be the

536
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,760
triangle person.
She's got a switch between the

537
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,080
bass drum and the.
Whenever you, whenever you go

538
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,640
see like like if you go to
Orchestra London or the

539
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,760
orchestra's there and they have
maybe vocalists or whatever, if

540
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,720
you ever pay attention to the
people, the percussionists, I

541
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,440
like that.
I enjoy, you know, they're the

542
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,440
ones that all of a sudden they
hit a symbol, you know, they'll

543
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,760
boom, they'll hit the cymbals or
yeah, I like and then.

544
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,160
You.
Got to move over here and play

545
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,760
this thing and.
Always enjoyed that.

546
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,600
And follow all the music and
count and yeah, so that's.

547
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,600
One thing I know about, I took
music in high school and one of

548
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,800
the things that I knew I
started, I began my musical

549
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:27,000
endeavors in public school and
I, I really wanted to play

550
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,640
something like, but the, all the
trumpets were gone.

551
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,320
Then I, I couldn't do the drums
because somebody got that.

552
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:36,640
So I ended up on clarinet.
Really, I never wanted.

553
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:37,720
Really to be a?
Lot.

554
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,400
Anyway, I learned to play the
clarinet, which allowed me to

555
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:45,320
move on to the saxophone and
here's Here's what I why I.

556
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:49,040
Want to just start on SAX?
No, you should learn to play the

557
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,040
clarinet first and then move the
saxophone.

558
00:27:51,120 --> 00:27:53,160
They're they're similar, but
they're different.

559
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,280
Get a butcher one before you
butcher the next.

560
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,280
Yeah, then.
I never played a Reed instrument

561
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,640
so I have no idea.
But I wanted to have a cool

562
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,440
instrument, right?
I wanted, you know, like if you

563
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,440
play guitar, well, you know,
like you, that was the thing.

564
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,520
You wanted to be a musician
because maybe, you know, maybe

565
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,400
girls would like you 'cause
you're a musician.

566
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:14,680
Or maybe you were in the band.
Not that band, Rachel.

567
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,640
Not the band you're.
Talking about band.

568
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,320
No, you want to be in a a band,
not you want to.

569
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:23,480
Be in a band, not A in a band
playing the what are you

570
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:24,960
playing?
The B flat horn?

571
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,880
That's not a sexy instrument,
you know what I'm saying?

572
00:28:28,120 --> 00:28:31,200
No, that makes me think.
Very pretty when you Christmas.

573
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,280
Caroling.
Well, yeah, yes, we do play

574
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:39,040
quite a few Christmas carols.
You're right, It is the

575
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:40,960
Salvation Army.
So we do that, yeah.

576
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,720
Is your band, so you're in the
junior band with all the kids?

577
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,320
Beginner band, the beginner
band.

578
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,720
But then actually this year
there was a few other little

579
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,200
little littler kids that got old
enough.

580
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,520
So they're they have like a four
person like really beginner

581
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,840
band.
And then there's one above us

582
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:01,400
that's like a junior band, and
then there's like another band.

583
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:05,640
Then there's two other bands and
the senior band is like adults

584
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,480
and they play every Sunday.
Wow.

585
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,160
There's like 30 of them
probably.

586
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,240
And then there's.
A lot of bands here, yeah.

587
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:15,080
Yeah, well, and a lot of people
then become music teachers.

588
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,440
So now we have a lot of music
teachers who are now teaching

589
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,560
the bands.
We have legit, you know, people

590
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,360
who do this for a living and who
have gone to school for that

591
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:27,240
kind of thing now teaching us
how to do it right.

592
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:28,000
And my kids.
Wow.

593
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,880
So, yeah, which?
A lot of bands.

594
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,840
Is there a dad band where
there's like 3 drummers and six

595
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:37,520
guys playing bass?
No, Oh no.

596
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,080
Well, my my dad used to be in
the senior band.

597
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,680
OK, forever but for my SO.
What do you teach him?

598
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,800
You should, yes.
And he, he led my bands quite

599
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,240
often and a lot of bands when I
was younger, OK.

600
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,840
Yeah, in.
Fact.

601
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:56,000
He LED our one band and took us
to England and the Netherlands

602
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,200
when I was like 22 or something
like.

603
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,960
That you went on a band.
Trip.

604
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,800
Yes.
Oh, we've gone to England.

605
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,280
The Netherlands, we've gone to
Bermuda.

606
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,000
I went to you know what?
I got to go play in the Rose

607
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:12,040
Bowl parade in California on New
Year's Day one year cuz.

608
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:13,680
Was that the French?
Horn.

609
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,400
Or was that the B flat?
That was the French.

610
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,400
No, it was the B flat horn.
Yeah, OK.

611
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,320
I guess they're easy to carry,
you know when are.

612
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,120
You playing the table.
In a marching band, I always

613
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:25,600
felt like that's.
Yeah, that's hard.

614
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,280
They give you straps for that.
Get a harness for that thing.

615
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:29,480
They give you a harness?
Yeah.

616
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,520
And now Rachel has another
ceiling in her bedroom.

617
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,400
OK, now we've got too far.
OK.

618
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,320
All right.
This is a church band for.

619
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,440
Me by the way, you've.
Taken now that church.

620
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:46,240
Band, Yeah.
Yo but this is just so to make

621
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,080
sure we all know and it's very
clear being in band or a band in

622
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:54,280
high school, either one because
I was in all of them, doesn't do

623
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:59,240
shit with girls.
Well, so sometimes.

624
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:00,440
Sometimes.
You.

625
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,640
Sometimes you have to explore
the source foreman.

626
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,040
That.
Was cool.

627
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,600
It was, yeah.
He's a drummer in all kinds of

628
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,120
band.
You really tried it every which

629
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,680
way.
Nothing worked for you.

630
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:18,040
No ring goes a great drummer,
but which one, you know?

631
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,240
Come on, which one?
Are you going to choose of all?

632
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,800
Needles. 9 strikes and you're
out. 10 strikes and you're out.

633
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,760
11 strikes.
Anyway, there's a little new,

634
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,320
something new that you've
learned about me.

635
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:32,400
Yes, OK, well, if I've.
Always done music lessons OK?

636
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,640
Well, if you're ever marching in
a parade, you let us know,

637
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:36,040
because I'm coming.
No.

638
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,840
What do you mean?
Not telling you anything.

639
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,480
We'll find out.
We'll find.

640
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,720
Out.
Oh God, Foreman will bring his

641
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,640
drum or something.
But rompa pom pom.

642
00:32:13,740 --> 00:32:15,380
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643
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You can also leave comments.
I mean, we are on TikTok.

674
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,160
I know three people of our age
ticking and talking.

675
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,000
Ticking and talking.
That's right.

676
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,160
Last week, Rachel, you're
talking about having an inner

677
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:39,360
monologue.
Yes.

678
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:44,080
Oh yeah, nobody.
Kyle says his is unusually loud

679
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:48,760
when he's golfing.
Okay, yeah, I think mine turns

680
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:52,240
off when I'm golfing.
It goes on autopilot like you

681
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,440
suck too much.
Mine gets very loud when I'm

682
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,920
cold.
Right, Queen Briel Who?

683
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,720
Or Queen Brie?
Sorry, who is Canadian?

684
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,640
Because beside her name is a
Canadian flag.

685
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:07,280
But she says my inner monologue
sometimes has an accent, usually

686
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,440
English or Scottish.
Really.

687
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,199
That's pretty cool.
Curious, that is.

688
00:34:11,199 --> 00:34:12,679
Curious.
That's very curious.

689
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,480
I think mine just sounds like
me.

690
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,120
Well, you're terrible at
accents.

691
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,639
That's why we knew that.
We we know.

692
00:34:20,639 --> 00:34:21,719
We know that.
Right.

693
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,320
Yeah, and I was never you.
Knew that, but you didn't know I

694
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,239
was in a band.
No, but we do know you're not

695
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,239
very good.
We did lots of Saint Patricks

696
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,440
Day radio shows.
Rachel, we remember.

697
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,040
Them all.
She did it, Yeah.

698
00:34:32,159 --> 00:34:34,800
We weren't going to escape.
Without that, I know no.

699
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:39,440
But as another comment on TikTok
says about your story of going

700
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,960
full Karen in Mexico.
Yeah, yeah.

701
00:34:43,639 --> 00:34:47,280
It's me, says full Karen.
Rachel is my favorite Rachel.

702
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:51,520
Oh OK, well she's not my
favorite, I'm not super proud of

703
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,920
that, but it happened.
Forbin and I are very used to

704
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:58,120
full Karen Rachel.
Yeah, if anybody's going to get

705
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,000
full Karen, it's both of you.
Right, we know.

706
00:35:01,240 --> 00:35:05,480
Sure.
And then Megan, Megan has

707
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,960
compended since Rachel, you
jumped us on board of the trend

708
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,640
of showing the baby pictures of
us.

709
00:35:13,720 --> 00:35:17,200
Every business is doing.
Ashley had no idea she helps run

710
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,960
a business and she had no idea
about this trend.

711
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,760
Like every single business is
this is who runs our business,

712
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,960
this is who does our marketing,
this is who make sure we get

713
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,480
paid.
Everybody's doing it.

714
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,360
We did it.
It's cute, it's adorable.

715
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,080
Megan also sent us.
We haven't posted it yet, but

716
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,880
clearly we're gonna a picture of
her as a child.

717
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:41,000
Oh great, awesome with.
With her own caption OK that

718
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,280
says this is the girl who is
known for gifting her sister

719
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:48,640
gifts in a particular theme,
which is often referenced on the

720
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,240
Due to Underwhelming Demand
podcast.

721
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,200
Oh, there she is.
What a cutie.

722
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,680
Little baby Megan.
We'll.

723
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,200
Post that.
Thank you, Megan.

724
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,520
Now we know, yeah.
That's what she would be famous

725
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:03,400
for as an adult.